The hardest part of trying to manage one’s life is that the steps others take with you can be much smaller and a bit slower then yours. It might even appear that they aren’t moving as you feel you are at least five steps ahead. What appears so simple and safe for you is unpredictable as well as unsteady for others. Sometimes though as they take their careful steps they see and feel things that you walked right past. Which could make them eventually get ahead while you fall behind. So try to be patient (especially me) and eventually G-D willing we will all get there at a pace that keeps us secure one or 1/2 step at a time.