There was a time when T.V’s were black and white as father really knew best or at least we assumed so but with American Dad’s taking over nobody really is in charge. I’ve felt that I should let my children find their way but maybe such leeway has led me to the path of paying the bills way past my senior years. I’m changing my tune and color as I realize that the one who pays the bills should have a greater say in how those monies are being spent and the direction that their children as well as family as a whole are on. It might not be as black and white as I like but the colors are definitely darkening and I must do a better job of taking the lead. For the one who pays is the one who should have more of a say and make sure everyone is listening.