Are our memories real or distorted by what we accept today? Have we have twisted a truth so the pain we dealt with can be bearable in the mind of today? Or do we project a memory to make us bigger today then what actually occur? There is only one way to know for certain talk to those around you during such a period but as time goes on they might twist that memory to suit their own painting. Therefore the sooner we speak about such a memory the closer it will become to the truth.