This little white stuff collapsed a surprise 50 years in the making. For on this day (actually the day before) my wife, sister, brother and a whole bunch of great friends and family had planned a beautiful party that they weren’t invited to attend. Of course they claimed their invitation got lost in the mail (or email) and decided to crash the party instead. Yet when you invite one flake (not a gay slur) the whole crowd decides to come and people just don’t want to be hanging out with them. I can’t express my love and gratitude for all those people who tried to make my special day so wonderful maybe next time the little white stuff can find a different party to crash instead.