When faced with a possible confrontation it’s best to have an offering of peace before any battle is launched. When Jacob was to encounter Esau his brother( whom strong animosity had existed before his departure) he offered him much to appease any anger he might have felt before such arrival occurred . We should do the same when encountering those whom peace seems far removed. Offer them the first Olive Branch or at least let them know the benefits of peace will outweigh’s those of war. During this period you can access your enemy as well to determine any weaknesses should a confrontation become necessary. This way if they pull out the sword at least you’ve given them a beautiful sheath that would have prevented such actions and have your sword ready in return.