I dangle between those that are more traditional and those that are more secular. Today for example I went to services for the 2nd Day of Rosh Hashanah (which nobody in my immediate family attended) and stayed till the final moments but then went to work (which probably nobody in my Shul did). I don’t Pork or Shellfish which goes against my secular friends but will grab a Snack Wrap which my Rabbi’s not fond of. I try my best to follow the teachings of the Torah but have some differences with many of the interpretations. Although once in a while I slip on that tightrope and might need help balancing I believe in general this is the path that G-D has sent me on.