Monthly Archives April 2018

“THEY” exist and it’s terrifying as well as annoying!  You didn’t spill the milk and not clean it up it was “them”. Of course you did your work “THEY” just ate it (not the dog).  A force so diabolicial evil that they laugh everytime you are blamed for what goes wrong.  “THEY” are the one’s who hid your keys and even left open the refrigerator.  The only problem is you will never catch them in the act for they act before you can even think about it or the consequences.

I might be opening a can of worms or snakes as I ponder “the memories of me” by the thousands  I’ve touched in someway. Don’t get me wrong I’ve never acted in a way that truly brings shame to my name or values although I’m sure I touched on a few edges as we all have. Yet I wonder what others might have perceived of me in my most difficult times?  Could I have been insensitive or even a bit cruel as I rushed on with life as others were facing a “life crisis” that left them with memories of me I would have hoped they forgot’?  Did I act in a vengeful way when I felt wronged which left them with a perception of me which was far from my normal reality?   I can’t control the memories others might have of me but I wonder what they were and if they were based on reality or the perceived reality that they will hold many years later.

Linda Vester has accused Tom Brokaw of inappropriate sexual advance which Mr. Brokaw strongly denies yet this opens the door to sexual advance as a whole. For one person usually has to initiate that first touch, kiss or what comes afterwards and another should be able to agree or back away.  No of course is no unless that person suddenly pushes the yes on you.  Sexual signals can be very confusing and in today’s time if you’re a single man you must always assume a yellow turning to red before even an extra glance is given. Don’t be surprised if there are more men going to prostitutes where a transaction occurs that everyone has agreed to in advance.  A strong marriage is the key where two individuals commit to fulfill each others desires with love and tenderness  over a lifetime but to get there someone has to make the 1st move which is more difficult then ever.

If you want to bring out the rEbel in me start speaking  in absolute terms such as “never, no or impossible” except when it comes to faith.  I believe there is only one who truly decide  what is right and wrong as many of those laws are clearly written in the holy book.  In most cases where people decide there is some wiggle room where I will try to squeeze through especially if there is an absolute connected to it.  I don’t try to be a rebel but I hate when someone tells me I can’t be one.

Kanye West has opened a whole new world to people who might have listened elsewhere.  Where other artists have closed their own door to those with differing views Kanye’s brave statement of support for the President has made those supporters turn their ears and minds unto a whole different genre music that they may have thought wasn’t willing to listen to them. This in turn should open up doors of conversations within various communities and maybe a greater chance of love, understanding and even a few dance moves as well.