Where is that line between believing it can be better and taking steps outside to see if it is actually true? For it is just a little smack in what you expected and isn’t it easier for your pocketbook as well as lifestyle to stay on the couch? Moving out expenses including legal, shipping, emotional and the unknown have to be factored in this emotional decision. The truth is it’s a difficult equation for anyone to figure out which has to factor in not only expenses, actual hours spent together but risk vs reward. Yes, maybe you can do better but maybe it’s not worth trying.