One way to truly find your identity is to become an expert in which you have a greater knowledge on one area then most other people. I remember a sales representative who became an expert on the “Titanic” this expertise led to many speaking engagements as well as cruises on boats (without icebergs). To become such an expert will require a great deal of time and effort as you will have to explore information that might be hard to come about but your efforts will be paid back by the knowledge you will gain and spread to others. It also might pay you back as a paid researcher, speaker and expert adviser on this subject matter. Even if there are no financial benefits in becoming such an expert the reward will be found in keeping your mind active and finding that individual knowledge that sets you apart.