No matter how much you feel you are an individual you still represent “…” to others. For the individual who doesn’t associate with others from your faith, creed, color, political group etc you’re their one representative. They will see your image, tone, and words then associate others in your tribe with them even if your mirror is a bit cracked. Why because it’s more simple than exploring the whole group and finding many of the intricacies and differences within. Therefore the pressure is on to not only look and act the best you can for yourself but the group(s) you represent to them.
I just don’t have time to do it all as well as meet the “right people” that is why I have a facilitator. This person helps me locate the people that can make my dreams come true and not become a “nightmare”. Which brings me to the point about time for as I get older and older (G-D willing) it will be harder to do the “manual tasks” of life so I’m ready, willing and G-D willing able to hire the people to set me free for the important and fun activities that might just come my way. I could let life slow me down or have others help me so it can continue to move at a healthy, happy pace.