You asked me why and I answer why not? While you worry about what do to every Shabbos/Saturday my nights and days are always planned out with great friends along the way. Dating is a problem you continually encounter while my spouse is determined by those who know me the best my parents while I still have the final say. Yes, I have to make ends meet but not to keep up with Joneses or Weiss with their fashion or style but with a look for a higher purpose. In the end, I have a path that honestly is easier than the one you’re still searching for.