My offers to help have been turned by those I love, those I sorta like and those I’d like to know better. As a matter of fact, one young lady turned down a 2nd date from me because I was just “too helpful”. Yet I still don’t learn my lesson for as I see trouble I try to jump in and save the day. The problem is that too often I’m not seen as the “superhero” as kryptonite is thrown down my rescue plan. Okay,my efforts are not that heroic helping someone find a supplier or helping organize one’s day but they could probably save the moment. In the end, I’m no superhero just an ordinary guy trying to help and seeing those two letters displayed way too often instead.