Narcissist Therapy

I’m thinking about seeking “Narcissist Therapy” because I need to know how to be a bit more “selfish/self-centered”.  I just realized that many of the pitfalls I’ve fallen through are because I’m overly concerned about avoiding conflicts and trying to help others out before I take my steps. Individuals that I should have been tougher with because they have done me wrong are allowed to skate on ice that is way too thin.  Don’t get me wrong I don’t want to become a full-blown narcissist just someone who occasionally looks at one’s own mirror and smiles.  Maybe therapy isn’t necessary just learning to balance the beam so I tilt it in my direction at least once in a while.