Nearly IMPOSSIBLE

I observe most Jewish dietary laws, observe basic Jewish holidays and generally try to lead a good Jewish life yet the lashon hara rules are nearly impossible not to break.  For how can someone not speak ill about another when that other makes them sick to their stomach? That is why I hope the following rules will allow some leeway with the highest authority. PLEASE SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AS WELL.

SAFETY-   If there is a good chance that what occurred or was said to you will be repeated to another with similar pain then cause great it’s actually your responsibility to report it to them in advance especially if it’s criminal in some way.

THERAPEUTIC –  If someone opens up with a professional/or one who fills that role at that time to clear the air so that they can move forward instead of back. Of course, the person receiving such information should keep it confidential except where grave peril to others could result in such confidentiality.

SANITY-  To receive reassurance from others that the feelings one has for another is something that is only perceived in their mind. This is not meant in any way to be “gossip” just be sane.

WORSE ACTION- If holding back on such expressions will cause one to reach a boiling point which would cause much greater harm. Of course avoidance and having other releases (music, working out, etc) should be utilized first.

FUNNY-  Sorry, but sometimes others’ actions are just too funny to keep to one’s self. Hey, I’m already sorry for these examples but trust me I look in the mirror twice before this would occur.