You might hate what is in front of you but at least the pain is felt right away. People can be cruel and hurtful yet the most painful events occur when you never see them coming. Those that out of the blue turn on you like a hot shower turning ice cold. Where frontal attacks can truly rip through a heartstring at least you have some type of defense you can utilize to lessen the pain and be prepared for any future attacks. While those from behind leave a scar that stays with you long past the knife has been removed.