The good news is things are probably not as bad as you feel they are but the bad news is they’re not as good as you think as well. We tend to heighten every difficult event in our life and blow up every good one till the truth is usually found in the middle. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t put up our defense or be the loudest cheerleader but maybe a bit of reflection in between could help. For as much as we think we have thought it out during such experiences, the true brain has plotted one that we may not have even put on our chessboard. G-D willing, in the end, it will make a whole lot more sense but for now, maybe we must look past the storm and see the sky really isn’t falling after all.