Projection

Why are you yelling at me!!!! One of the most difficult things to deal with in a relationship is one where the other projects their image on you.  It can be quite confusing when the person who is not talking asks you why you are so quiet or the one who is shouting claims your voice is to loud.  What makes it truly bizarre is this individual looks everywhere but their own mirror.  It’s almost if they’re a vampire in which their shadow can’t be seen to them.  A step by step approach with the individual slowly coming to their own truth is probably the only approach that works. To bad that the one who does the projecting will often walk the opposite way away from the truth they don’t want to see.