They may have bruised your ego but a smile gives you the upper hand. For they don’t know how to react when instead of going into the boxing ring you reach out with a smile. Yes, you have to tell them how you feel but do it in a way that makes sure you score the knock out. A smile take them off guard and then when you hit their defenses are not ready for the slam. Start with some kind words that you might have to dig deep for before the truth on top is revealed. It’s not easy but neither is victory which is in your frown turned upside down.