Recently a loved one said that everyone tells him that the President is responsible for my Uncle’s passing. As much as I wanted to lash out at such a remark I felt it was incumbent to understand the feeling’s behind it 1st. Obviously this loved one didn’t believe that the President ordered a hit on my Uncle a man who the President honestly didn’t know existed so what was he truly trying to say instead? Yes, he could claim if some conditions were changed there is a possibility my uncle would not have picked up the Corona-Virus yet I’m sure if he thought a bit deeper he would have seen this was really beyond the President’s power either way. My loved one was speaking from pain and fear rather then literally and if I was to help him I would have to relate to the emotions rather then the words. So many times our need to blame is a cover to help us heal from emotions we rather keep hidden. Maybe we should speak to those emotions rather then try to justify our counter-argument instead.