Would you really pick one of your children’s presents above the other if they all came from the same heart? Then why should we believe G-D would decide one vs the other if that also was the case? For we are all G-D’s children and if we truly believe that what we are doing/saying is the path that our creator wants to go then why should a decision need to be made in one’s favor. If someone of course wants to follow G-D then they must study the book (s) , mind, heart and soul not just say they are. Yet in the end even if our presents are a bit different if they are truly filled with love then they are all great just like Y-O-U.